good eat? quality time..

Yesterday, my significant half asked me to have a dinner with him. I was surprise with his gesture, for i cannot remember when was the last time he did that without me asking for it. After a long hours of work, I finally got the chance to end close my PC and clean my work area. I rushed out of the office and drive myself t0 gateway mall. Dhey (as i call him) was already there inside the starbuck having his short cup of coffee. I arrived at starbucks as he handed me a cup of juice. We went out of of the coffee shop as he decided to go to nearest car accessories store. He bought car fresheners of different scent. After which, we went to look for a resto where we can eat. We both agreed to dine at burgoo restaurant since he wanted to eat steak. He ordered their country style steak for 549php with a mashed potatoe for 45php, while I ordered a baked crab for 489php. We also had their super sampler as an appetizer for 398php. i was frustated with their steak. It was not the steak which we expected. There was nothing special about it. The serving is good but the taste is not worth it. the baked crab was good but the super sampling was a so so... Anyhow, we ended up with afrown in our face. We went to rustan's grocery store to buy some chips and lettuce for his salad. We hopped out of the mall and went home and settled down to watch a DVD. The day ended with a smile as we had a quality time with each other.

FIFTY LESSONS IN LIFE

Today i went back to work after school to finish a program for our data which will be submitted to a client tomorrow. I'm almost done with it, but i feel so tired so i thought of browsing the net and was able to stopped into my friendster account and browse a post from a friends saying "ANONG KLASENG BUHAY 'TO?". I got so curious and called this friend of mine to check of he has a problem or what and he told me he's not feeling well in he is in the state of finding himself. I asked him if we could see each other on a sunday so we could talk and he said yes.

After which, i opened one of my books and found this very inspirational script. I find it true and to the truest sense of it. Let me share this to you. Got to learn how to play and live with life.

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.
17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.
18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, and wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over-prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.
38. Read some good books. They cover every human emotion.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

41. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
42. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
45. The best is yet to come.

46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
48. If you don't ask, you don't get.
49. Yield.
50. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

Hope you liked it. CHOOSE TO LIVE A HAPPY LIFE..> LOVE LIFE

patience

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There were been thoughts and sentiments that have been bothering me lately that affects my performance towards work and people I work with. I have reflected and look at myself to see where I am at. I've read inspirational books, the bible and even view my friends' blogs that would make me feel realize or even justify my deeds until i browsed my brother's blog and a comment under it. It says there, "you can never be the person you want to be and things don't turn out the way we want it to be. true enough, i have realized that the reason why I act so strange last week was because I want things to be done and happen the way I want it to be. I understand that i am not the only person who will be working to achieve our goal. That there will always be people in the organization who will not appreciate me even I have tried and did my very best to attain our organization's target. Even if I was doing things in good fate not everyone will be happy of that. I learned that I have to be myself and have focus on what I am doing and understand that each person has his own thing. Be still...

While writing this blog, I am starting to return to the person I was when I started to work in our organization. But I will be always on guard on my behavior. Be safe... be calm.. smile... after all smile is the greatest vengeance.